Planning to have intercourse with some body isn’t love, that is lust. People wish to have intercourse because of the social individuals they love, however it isn’t the exact same as „loving“ them.
Me personally an my ex fucked just about daily. Several times a time in the extremely begin. I would personallyn’t enjoy a 2-3 times per week.
You’re intentionally l king for difficulties with this idea, this is exactly why you are hearing those „voices“.